Ok, so I’ve been mia for a while. I’ve just been getting adjusted to being a new mom while fighting to save my marriage. I have to tell ya’ll. It didn’t look to good for a minute. I thought I was gonna hafta catch a charge. I don’t know what it is. There are somethings that really irk me about Phatman. I’m not gonna put him out there like that but I think that we may be on the right path. We’ve only been married for 1 yr and 9 mths. (We’ve been together for almost 12 years!) Marriage is definently a job. I’m learning that….add a newborn and it’s chaos. I think that Phatman was/is jealous of the baby. I was heated about it at first Until I learned that it is to be expected. So, how has everyone else been? Anything new? Can you believe that Phatbaby will be 4 months old on Saturday! Boy time flies. Well I just wanted to let you know that I’m still alive and YES, we’re still together.