Was a complete success last night! I had some people call in and share! ~Waving…~ “Heyyy The Lyrical Princess and LiberalPoet, and Blazecat” and “Justwrite”. We had some hot poetry shared last night ya’ll! I was listening intently of course!  Lyrical Princess shared the best advice…”if there is a talent out there find whatever venue you can to get it out there and share with the rest of the world!” To find out what else we talked about last night, just click the link and enjoy!

Hot tears burning my eyes, I refused to cry giving in. No longer believing in happy ever after…queue the laughter. No longer trying to win, should have never got in…But trying not to sin… I let him come in and try to take over, a no limit solider. Doing what my momma said not to do. “Girl, don’t you let no man control you” I hear you mama, it’s too late I said…quieting down momma’s voice in my head. You’ve made your bed now, in it you’ve got to lay. Does that mean I have to stay? Through all of the disappointments and all of the pain…in the words of that song…through the sunshine and through the rain. Still continue to make that drive to work…I knew this shyt was gonna hurt telling him how much he is a jerk and why I should have never to that step. Trying to put back together what’s left of this relationship, no longer keeping my lips sealed…not even giving him something he can feel…it ain’t gonna happen it’s over I’m done…why do I have to keep fighting with you in front of our son. He’s looking at us with a little pain on  his face…I do not want him to be a part of the place that we’re in, I’m getting ready to leave, finally letting the tears fall, rubbing my eyes on my sleeve…I can’t continue to go through this, it’s taking away from me all of my hopes and wishes. No more sweet kisses, no more holding hands, no more wedding bands. Just emptiness where love once was. You can’t make love; you can love and be loved. Not yelling and screaming and throwing fist, not kicking and punching and having fits, all because you can’t get your way…you can’t have your say…I’ll say it for you. I’m leaving today…

Last week was a sad week in my community. A young lady by the name of Jammie Street, was gunned down in front of her babies. She spent the last few seconds of her life..running for her life. She was well loved by her family and her friends. The person that killed her, her boyfriend. Someone that has probably said “I love you” on numerous occasions. People have tried to look at this as another sad situational that just so happened to occur in the small town of Fuquay-Varina, NC. I don’t. I look at this as a wake up call. How many times have you been in a relationship with someone and failed to notice the signs until it was too late or until you couldn’t take anymore. No one knows what she was going through with this man. She was the father of her child. I say this to say.. no matter what the problem is…tell someone. Silence will hurt you more than anything. No one wants to hear the “I told you so’s..” and the ” If you had listened to me..”. Listen to these young ladies and young men without the criticism. There are other Chris Browns and Rihanna’s out there that are not getting all of this media attention. There are young girls out there that are getting into relationships as young as the age 11. We need to educate our daughters and sons on the importance of leaving well enough alone. If you and your boyfriend/girlfriend are not getting along…let them go. Just leave them alone. You will never be able to read someone’s mind and you don’t know what type of temperament someone may have until they show their true colors. I know it is hard and your heart my ache but we would rather you leave them alone, so we NEVER have to look down on you and wonder why this happened to you. We love you and we want you to grow up and become productive members of this society. We value your life even if you don’t. If there is someone who you know that is in an abusive relationship…even if it is yourself..please seek help/guidance.

http://www.domesticviolence.org/

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE (7233) or TTY 1−800−787−3224.

Last week was a sad week in my community. A young lady by the name of Jammie Street, was gunned down in front of her babies. She spent the last few seconds of her life..running for her life. She was well loved by her family and her friends. The person that killed her, her boyfriend. Someone that has probably said “I love you” on numerous occasions. People have tried to look at this as another sad situational that just so happened to occur in the small town of Fuquay-Varina, NC.  I don’t. I look at this as a wake up call. How many times have you been in a relationship with someone and failed to notice the signs until it was too late or until you couldn’t take anymore. No one knows what she was going through with this man. She was the father of her child. I say this to say.. no matter what the problem is…tell someone. Silence will hurt you more than anything. No one wants to hear the “I told you so’s..” and the ” If you hada listen to me..”. Listen to these young ladies and young men without the criticism.  There are other Chris Browns and Rihanna’s out there that are not getting all of this media attention. There are young girls out there that are getting into relationships as young as the age 11. We need to educate our daughters and sons on the importance of leaving well enough alone. If you and your boyfriend/girlfriend are not getting along…let them go. Just leave them alone. You will never be able to read someone’s mind and you don’t know what type of temperment someone may have until they show their true colors.  I know it is hard and your heart my ache but we would rather you leave them alone, so we NEVER have to look down on you and wonder why this happened to you. We love you and we want you to grow up and become productive members of this society. We value your life even if you don’t. If there is someone that you know that is in an abusive relationship…even if it is yourself..please seek help/guidance.

http://www.domesticviolence.org/

Help is available to callers 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Hotline advocates are available for victims and anyone calling on their behalf to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information and referrals to agencies in all 50 states, Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Assistance is available in English and Spanish with access to more than 170 languages through interpreter services. If you or someone you know is frightened about something in your relationship, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−SAFE (7233) or TTY 1−800−787−3224.

It’s all about sacrifice. How bad do you want it? You must learn that in order to receive the things that you want in life, you must give up something. It could be a little bit of something or alot. It’s not always easy especially if you have let that person, place, or thing become a crutch for you. You must decide is it really worth it. I say this to say that when there are people that cause you to feel tired all the time, negative about everything, and just completely drains you, let them go! It can make you physically sick. It takes alot to admit that there are some people that really stress you the phuck out. You try and do the best that you can and they continuously try to tear you down. That’s not a good look. Especially when they are the closest thing to you. A sister, mother, cousin, buddy, or spouse…tell them how you feel and then let it go. I promise you, you will feel so much better when you do. Keep striving for that success you want to achieve whether it’s financial or self-motivation work on it and make it work for you! Remained focus…have tunnel vision…get on the train or get left…

Check out these old school classics…what song is your favorite?

Take them shoes off…don’t come up in here with them shoes on messing up this here carpet. ~lol~ Glad ya’ll decided to stop by. You like? Me too and it’s paid for! (lol) No need to worry about foreclosure up in here. Welcome to my new spot! I’m digging it so far. Feel free to look around and take a tour. If you look to your right —–> you will see the link to the store. Feel free to go in and shop around.

I have some of the cutest merchandise for you! I have also placed some on the bottom of this post.

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